This week's musing is short but it’s simple, powerful, and something I’d like you to keep in mind for the holidays.

When I think of good sex, lately one word comes to mind: curiosity.

Curiosity can create buzz and excitement in a relationship.

Curiosity can give you a new appreciation for another person. 

Curiosity is a form of humility––being curious about another, forgetting about yourself for a while.

Curiosity teaches you things you never knew about someone you’ve known forever.

Curiosity means being active and interested.

Curiosity makes you go deeper into learning rather than skimming the surface and moving on.

I guarantee you that if you have been with someone for a day, a year or a decade, there is still so much to uncover. 

So next time you have sex or you have a moment of intimacy with your lover, be curious.

Happy holidays, lovers.