The games we play

Playing games when you’re a child is a good indicator of social success but playing games when you’re older? Pointless. Heart-wrenching. Anxiety inducing.

Jasmin Walker14 March 2024Comment

What's her name again?

Have you ever had amnesia and forgotten someone’s name, too embarrassed to ask? It happens with sex, too. Not the forgetting-the-name part but when you’ve left it “too long” to communicate about something.

Jasmin Walker29 February 2024Comment

Hara hachi bun me

Restraint is hard, especially when you’re hungry. It’s harder still when you’re horny. But here’s a fun thought: what if we rework the Japanese saying “Hara hachi bun me” and apply it to sex?

Jasmin Walker22 February 2024Comment

It reads celsius but I want fahrenheit

Our desires are like seasons; it is quite natural and healthy to move through the weeks, months and years of our lives wanting, and needing different things.

Jasmin Walker16 February 2024Comment

Are we mad?

The blatant sexism of the ‘60s may have been forced aside now but it still exists everywhere. It just feels more hidden, like a snide comment under the breath.

Jasmin Walker8 February 2024Comment

Run from fear

Is there something you want to experience solo or with a partner and you don’t do it because of fear? There’s no escaping fear but you can learn a lot from it.

Theodora11 January 2024Comment

It killed a cat but saved your relationship

When I think of good sex, lately one word comes to mind: curiosity.

Jasmin Walker21 December 2023Comment

Betty and rejection

Rejection isn’t a bad thing. Yes, it hurts like hell but I don’t believe it’s a reflection of our self-worth. We let rejection hurt us because we take it very personally. We are more inclined to listen to the one “no” than the hundred “yeses”.

Jasmin Walker7 December 2023Comment

The gold is in the shit

If we are going to elevate sexual expression, then we must acknowledge when things are shiny, dull and rusted because the truth is, your sexual radiance isn't going to shine like a well-lubed butt plug every day of every week.

Jasmin Walker16 November 2023Comment

Heel, sit, stay

Porn and movies would have us believe that it’s ‘normal’ to cum from a few eager strokes of an engorged penis. Who are they fucking kidding? Us mere mortals need more. Here’s how to close the damn orgasm gap.

Theodora9 November 2023Comment

All the small things

Relationships are fucking hard. They are really complicated. It doesn’t matter if they’re committed, casual, sexual, or you’re still figuring it out. And they need attention. I’m not saying you need to go and buy your babe diamonds on the double but every day you need to be aware of all the small things.

Theodora12 October 2023Comment

My carpenter is a tool

A story about a carpenter, a coffee shop, a bench seat and my wide-open legs.

Theodora28 September 2023Comment