Let's talk about sex, baby. Salt-n-Pepa pushed out these lyrics in the '90s, and I wish we could say that 30 years later, we're talking about it. But we're still too scared to talk about it.
Read MoreToday’s options are endless, tailored and refined, and companies are finally creating sex toys for genders beyond the binary and all sexual orientations. And they’re marrying form and function. Read on to find out about the coolest companies creating the best sex toys.
How do we create closeness when having sex isn’t of interest to us? There are numerous reasons why you might not want to have sex, but you want intimacy. This may be intimacy with a lover or an emotional, mental or spiritual reconnection with yourself.
Read MoreIt may be controversial, but I’m going to say it anyway. Sex toys are one of the best inventions. And they’ve come a long way since I bought my first one 20 years ago. These days they are just as much art as they are aides.
Read MoreHot intimacy usually comes with a good swig of communication, even though you rarely hear communication being called ‘sexy’. Our desires and needs change, which means communication is a constant dance of exploring and learning.
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In intimate moments with lovers, we're focused on the excitement of before and during, but how often do we focus on what happens after sex?
Read MoreYour imagination is the limit when it comes to getting your enjoyment out of this little palm-sized pleasure tool.
Read MoreI spent a chunk of my early 20s faking orgasms, and damn, was I good at it. I could’ve taken out more Oscars than Hepburn; my lovers were unaware.
Read MoreIt’s been a minute since John Kellogg preached a diet of his bland, corn cereal to ward off the masturbation demons.
We’ve come a long way since the 19th century, but there’s still a decent dose of stigma swirling around the topic of self-love. But listen up. Masturbation and exploration are healthy.
Read MoreThe adage “it’s the quality, not the quantity” applies to multiple facets of our life. For example, do you fill your home with meaningless crap and spend short minutes with different people, never building genuine connections?
Read MoreHands up if when you read “foreplay”, you think of the sequences of events that happen in the minutes – or if you’re a pleasure forager – the hour before intercourse? OK, I doubt you’re sitting in a cafe with your hand raised but I know I’ve got you.
So what if I were to say that those minutes are simply the tip of the iceberg and by focusing on them, we’re missing out on a hefty dose of magic that can exist outside the bedroom.
Read MoreSchedule sex. Two words smashed together that seem counterintuitive. We schedule meetings, visits with the in-laws and Pap smears. Sex, on the other hand, should be spontaneous, raging with lust and laced with urgency. Amiright? Well, maybe not…
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