“A question is more than just a way to fill silence. It is the recognition that every person is infinite, that even your closest loved ones are never fully knowable.” For these holidays, I’m giving you 40 questions you can ask to create a more intimate and fun experience.

We desire with our eyes; we shop with our eyes; we are visual creatures of habit. We're so used to our sight playing the dominant that it overtakes everything else. So you can just imagine the party to be had when our wallflower senses get a front-row seat.

Butt plugs are like brussels sprouts. Both seem like small, pocket-sized nuggets of terror that need a whole lot of somethin’ somethin’ to make them palatable. They are both misunderstood and shrouded in shame. But the only reason people are frightened of sprouts and plugs is coz they just don’t know how to work ‘em. 

Strong relationships are built on paying attention consistently to the small things. Here are three simple and small things you can do to start building your relationship and intimacy to a level 10.